2008 Is About To End.....What's 2009 Got To Offer Us?

Well, 2008 has been one of many changes. Not all of them have been beneficial though. In fact, for many of us, this has been a year that we would rather forget. Job losses, plant closing, the auto industry in turmoil, and don't get me started on the mortgage company foreclosures.

Let's just cut our losses and start 2009 with a clean fresh slate. We did it once before when we were born; we can do it again. Just keep a positive attitude and make lemonade when you are thrown a pile of lemons.

I am going into the new year with a new outlook on life. I feel blessed to have the love of family and friends. They may not all be within an arms throw; in fact, most of them are not. However, they love me for who I am and that is how I want it. No plastic fake persona for me or around me. I don't believe that anyone needs to put on a false front in order to be accepted by others. That is just a deadly game that many individuals play in order to feel as if they fit in. I want no part of that. Just be who you are and be happy; don't change for me or anyone else.

We only have one life to live so live it to the fullest and make happy memories that will last a lifetime.

Love to you all. Have a Safe and Happy New Year. May all your wishes and dreams come true.

Bless you.
Lisa

When the times get tough, handle them with courage and grace.

Ernest Hemingway said it best when he said "courage is grace under pressure." I couldn't have said it any better. Especially in times when our economic future appears to be grim. To many it appears that the sky is falling and there isn't a support beam in sight to hold it up. To me, that is a lot of pressure for an individual to have to handle. No wonder we are becoming a society of depressed individuals that feel they have only one solution to their problems and it is not pretty.

We all need to stand tall and have a little courage; not fear in our abilities to make ends meet and succeed during these very difficult times. I know that they are tougher than we could have ever imagined them to be; we feel that there is no light at the end of the tunnel. I have felt the same way and let me tell you one thing, that is not a healthy way of thinking.

I have not been immune to the social and economic events that have occurred either. My husband works in the metal building industry and they were very hard hit by this crisis. Hard hit to the point where 64 employees from his company were laid off with no potential rehire date in the near or distant future. He has been in the business for 30 years and now he feels like a greenhorn having to start fresh in a new career along side much younger individuals that are all jockeying for the same slim pickings. You think that we are scared; darn right we are. Life as we have known it is no longer an option. A fresh start in a new career appears to be the only way to get out of this economic sledge hammer that we have gotten hit with.

So, I feel that Hemingway was right when he said, "grace is courage under pressure." Because I feel that we can all make it through these tough times if we are able to stand up, brush ourselves off, and handle this extreme pressure "gracefully" with a little added courage.

Well, that appears to be all the time I have for now. Until next time, remember to always keep smiling because you never know who will be watching and may want to smile back. :)